Negative #2 : Let guys in & out too easily.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
8:38 PMI do agree with this one as well, knowing i let dudes in & out of my life too easily. i guess it's due to my fuck you attitude?
Why i do it?
The main reason i let guys in & out so easily is because i don't deal with bullshit. Also i feel everyone deserves a chance to prove who they are & if they are worth it. Obviously most guys aren't which is why they are gone so quick. If you lie, act young minded, bring drama into my life, you mine as well leave before i just cut you off. It's the best way to go. I do agree that i shouldn't let so many guys in just because i have had the worst luck with guys, probably due to the fact i pretty much give everyone a chance. I should be more picky on what guys are allowed in my corral.
How i can fix it?
If i see anything in a person that someone has done before, dismiss automaticly. Also i need to realize i am a women now, i shouldn't deal with men who are still boys aka young minded. If you don't have your life together, why should i let you in mine? I know what i want, i know what i need, & i know my goals in life. Do you? If you don't ... i won't waste my time with you. I have enough drama in my life with my parents, if a guy comes into my life with drama, automatic dismiss. I dont need anymore drama than i already deal with. If you are a boy who listens to what everyone else says & wants to believe everyone else's word over mine, bye. My name has been dragged through the mud before, yet people realized it was mostly lies, so it came out clean. If you want to lie about me, disrespect me in any form, try & drag my name through the mud .. bye. It's pretty simple; just be grown, be about your business, & act like a real man not a youngin.
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Erin Marie
23 years young - female
Born & raised in Chicago.
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