Negative # 3: i'm too nice.
Sunday, April 26, 2009
11:38 AMI've been told this since i was real young. I'm the type of person who is quick to lend out money, if i have it & you need it i won't refuse to share. If someone is mad at me over a situation, i honestly do feel bad & hate that they are mad so i try to work it out with them. If someone fucks up & i truely cared for them, i give them another chance. Way more chances than they desereve. I have come to find out, giving more chances does not do anything. 98% of people don't change, and i have seen that with my own eyes. I have no clue why i continue to give others chance after chance after chance.
Why am i too nice?
Back in the day during hs, i was the biggest bitch you can imagine & that got me no where. So i figured at this time in my life i have no reason to be mean. I love to see people smile & to make them happy. yeah of course i have mess ups, but i try my hardest to do the best i can & that's all i can do. everyone messes up, but what matters the most is what they do after the mess up. I dislike when ppl are mad at me or upset with me, especially if it's over gossip or assumptions. I've had my name dragged through the mud, it finally came out clean & i'm trying to keep it that way. Sometimes it is extremely difficult to be nice, but if you fuck up, ima let you know. I can only bite my tongue for so long. I'll try not to hurt your feelings, but sometimes that is what it takes.
How can i be nice, yet not too nice?
I need to stop being so caring, and put myself before others. I always think about others before i think about myself. I can learn to say no to somethings. Don't be so willing to make everyone else happy.
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Erin Marie
23 years young - female
Born & raised in Chicago.
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