why women cheat? (stolen from rebekah.)
Sunday, April 5, 2009
10:54 PMi was on a friends page & saw this, decided to copy it to help out some of you men that don't understand women.
point blank..these are reasons why us women lose interest or can't get attached.
10. The relationship isn't THAT serious.
Starts off as friends, playing hard to get..but If you don't seal the
deal while she's really into you, you just might blow it, and she knows
it!
9. They are bored in the relationship.
They get bored when the sparks no longer fly, they are stuck in a
routine at home or in the relationship, and if their man isn't paying
attention to them or they aren't having anymore fun together. Women
need romance and to feel special (same with males)The longer you leave
gaps in between the romance, some other guy may be filling in for you.
8. They aren't getting what they want out of the relationship.
Most women want a place to call home, some type of commitment, and
eventually, If they have been in a long term relationship and nothing
seems to be materializing from it, they will consider straying if they
haven't already. Women need to know their place in your life, we want
to know that you are in it to give them that happily ever after, and if
you don't step it up, then you need to proceed with caution We don't
want to be your baby mama, but if that's what it takes to get you to
commit, then some women will take that route and make you miserable for
the rest of your life, all because... you didn't give her want she
wants or needs in the relationship.
7. When he has too much baggage.
Psycho ex girlfriends, baby mama drama, ex-wives with too much control,
over-protective siblings, bratty kids and friends that don't know when
to go home, will take their toll on a woman. There is nothing more
unattractive then a man that has too much baggage. Women will begin to
take a look at their options out there no matter how nice or great of a
guy her man is. A man can spoil her rotten, treat her with love and
respect, but if his mama always has something to say, if his parents
drop by unannounced, or are rude when her man isn't around, she will
begin to resent the number one woman in your life, her arch-enemy...
Yo' MAMA! If your ex, baby mama, or ex-wife causes too many problems in
your relationship, you better do whatever you can to keep her because
that is some bull-stuff that she will only take for so long.
6. They won't leave something for nothing.
When you're just not getting along and you seem to be fighting a lot,
fellas beware! Most women won't have a clean break because we need to
"get under someone new, to get over someone old." That's right, this is
something even our mothers and grandmothers know now days! That is why
we always tend to have a "rebound guy," you know, the guy after the
serious long-term relationship, before the string of one night stands
and mini-relationships that will eventually lead to the new and
improved relationship with someone better then you. Don't be mistaken,
women are a lot more slick then we have been given credit for, and you
won't even see it coming. By the time you're ready to "work things out"
she may be on to bigger and better things, so if you know you love her
and want to be with her, you better fix the problems before you get
replaced.
5. Ok, sometimes it is about the SEX.
If a girl is having trouble climaxing, no matter how great of a guy you
are..if you can't throw some good dick..ITS A WRAP. big turn off.
4. When things start to go sour.
Let's face it, women need a lot of attention, we have feelings and
emotions that run deeper then any of the seven seas in the whole wide
world. when you start to ignore we start to stray.
3. If the relationship gets physical, in a bad way.
Don't think that you could ever completely control a woman. If you try
to use scare tactics, if you hit her, beat her up, or threaten her, she
can and will stray at some point, it is just a matter of when. If you
are verbally or emotionally abusive, we may play the victim card but
every woman can be pushed to her breaking point until enough is enough
and there is always a guy willing to play the "hero"
2. When she doesn't come first in your life.
If you put other people before her then she will eventually stray and
find herself in bed with a guy that will put her first. A woman has to
feel like she is your number one priority outside of your real
responsibilities like work or school, since women can be considered
your partner, she needs to be treated as such, and more.
1. Whatever you can do, we can do it better.
If you have cheated on us and we take you back, you better be on your
toes every minute of every day! Don't think you are in the clear just
because she forgave you, you better watch how she interacts with your
brother, your cousins, your best friends, co- workers, and anyone with
a penis. She will go for the jugular fellas, and I am not playing! If
you break her heart and she gives you a second chance, she is probably
going to start plotting the biggest, heart-breaking performance of her
life. Just when you think it's all water under the bridge, you will
find your heart ripped out, stomped on and spit on, under that bridge.
I know this all sounds horrible, and you probably think that women
aren't like that, but if you really believe that then you are naive.
hope that could be some help to you fellers.
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Born & raised in Chicago.
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