trust.
Friday, May 6, 2011
6:14 PM
Some people believe relationships can't happen if there is no trust. Looking back, i have NEVER fully trusted anyone in my life, let alone a guy i'm dating. Men will tell you anything you want to hear to get exactly what they want, whether it's attention, money, sex, just to have you on their arm, anything. Sometimes as a woman you get vibes from it, like ahh he just wants this he aint about his shit, & sometimes you really believe someone is serious when they speak their bullshit. They are extremely sincere with it, very convincing, and can truly get you to believe them.

I have learned, pretty much 99.9% of men's words are compete bullshit. Once one gets you to believe them, and trust them ... they take full advantage & just don't give a fuck about your feelings, wants, needs, or opinions.

I deserve better. I deserve a man who could take the time to actually call me & try to work out a problem, not talk to me as if i was shit between his toes because he was in a bad mood, to act the same he expects me to act, if you want your words to have meaning, be able to back them up. Actions speak louder than words. If you're actions are fucking up, i will not believe your words. He said forever, yet every issue there was ... he was quickly running for the door. That's not forever. He said he was in it for the long run, yet he doubted me the entire time. How can you be in it with someone for the long run, yet doubt everything the person your with says, or does? You start catching onto they fishiness & BAM. You already know the outcome, so when it comes you say your piece & head your way. Time to do you baby.

Lesson well learned. The one time you actually think you can trust someone, they show you ... NO ONE can be trusted, no matter what promises or words they speak.
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Erin Marie 23 years young - female Born & raised in Chicago.




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